Do you use the coconut milk in a carton or the coconut milk that comes in a can? If you use the one in the can, what ratio of liquid to kava do you use?Regular 3.5% fat milk and coconut milk or even unrefined coconut oil have all worked for me. Although when I'm using regular milk, it's for the same reasons violet said. It does smooth it out a bit. It has the same bitterness cutting in kava as it does in coffee.